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Safe Dating Tips

Meeting new people is exciting. Stay safe with these guidelines.

At Fynd Mee, your safety is our top priority. While we verify all profiles, you should always exercise caution when interacting with new people, whether online or in person.

Use your best judgment and put your safety first. While you can't control others' actions, these tips can help protect you throughout your dating journey.

1. Online Safety

Never Send Money or Share Financial Info

Never send money or share financial information.

This includes wire transfers, gift cards, or cryptocurrency investments. Scammers often create fake emergencies to manipulate victims.

  • •Never wire money – it's nearly impossible to trace or reverse
  • •Don't share bank account or credit card details
  • •Report anyone who asks for money immediately

Protect Your Personal Information

Keep personal details private until you've built trust with someone.

  • •Don't share your home or work address
  • •Avoid sharing daily routines (e.g., gym schedules)
  • •If you're a parent, limit information about your children

Stay on Fynd Mee Platform

Keep conversations on Fynd Mee while getting to know someone. Users with bad intentions often try to move chats elsewhere quickly.

Our platform includes safety features and message filters to protect you.

Watch for Red Flags

Be cautious if someone:

  • •Claims to be overseas but wants a serious relationship
  • •Won't meet in person or do video calls
  • •Pushes for quick commitment
  • •Has inconsistent stories or information

2. Meeting In Person

Take Your Time

Don't rush into meeting. Get to know the person through video calls first. Ask questions to identify any red flags or dealbreakers.

Meet in Public

Always meet in populated, public places for initial dates – never at private homes.
  • •Choose busy cafes, restaurants, or parks
  • •End the date if pressured to go somewhere private

Tell Someone Your Plans

Always inform a friend or family member:

  • •Where you're going and who you're meeting
  • •What time you expect to return
  • •Arrange to check in after the date

Control Your Transportation

Use your own transportation or ride-share services. This ensures you can leave whenever you want.

Never agree to be picked up from your home on a first date.

Stay Alert with Drinks

Keep your drink and personal items secure:

  • •Watch your drink being prepared
  • •Never leave drinks unattended
  • •Keep phone, wallet, and purse with you

3. Sexual Health & Consent

Protect Your Health

Practice safe sex. Use protection consistently to reduce STI risks. Remember some STIs transmit through skin-to-skin contact.

Know Your Status

Get tested regularly – many STIs show no symptoms. Open communication with partners is essential.

Consent is Everything

All sexual activity requires clear, ongoing consent from all parties.
  • •Check in with your partner regularly
  • •Consent can be withdrawn at any time
  • •Intoxication impairs the ability to consent

4. Report & Block Features

Report Suspicious Behavior

Report anyone who:

  • •Asks for money or donations
  • •Sends harassing or threatening messages
  • •Engages in inappropriate behavior
  • •Has a fake or fraudulent profile

Use Block Features

You can block any user instantly. Blocked users cannot contact you or see your profile.

Our Safety Features

  • •All profiles are verified with facial recognition
  • •24/7 moderation team
  • •One-tap reporting and blocking
  • •Screenshot detection for privacy

5. LGBTQ+ Safety

Travel Considerations

Research local laws when traveling. Some countries criminalize LGBTQ+ relationships or dating app use.

Consider logging out of Fynd Mee in countries with restrictive laws. Your safety comes first.

Extra Caution

Be mindful of your surroundings and exercise extra caution when connecting with new people in unfamiliar locations.

Emergency Resources

If you feel you're in immediate danger, call emergency services in your country.

Support Hotlines

  • •Emergency Services: 911 (US/Canada) or local emergency number
  • •National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673
  • •Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: 988 (US)

Remember

Trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, remove yourself from the situation. Your safety is more important than being polite.

Need Help?

If you have safety concerns or need to report an incident, contact our Trust & Safety team:

Fynd Mee Safety Team

info@fyndmee.app

We review all reports within 24 hours and take appropriate action.